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Letter: Respect Special Places

After discovering graffiti at a local park, a reader encourages parents to teach children the lesson of respect.

Kings Park Patch recently received this letter from a concerned reader, who discovered graffiti at her local park.

 This evening I took my children to Memorial Park, I was anxious to see the improvements being made to the monument area.  As I approached I reminded my children to avoid the wet concrete and not climb on the monument, as I do each time we visit.  They understand that the monument is a special place to be treated with respect. 

I noticed that someone had carved something into the concrete. I was disappointed but thought that carving ones initials in wet concrete is almost a rite of passage impossible to resist to most kids.  On closer inspection I realized that nearly the entire surface was covered with names, potty, though not foul language and most disturbing, inappropriate drawings. I was outraged as a parent, taxpayer, Kings Park resident and citizen of the country whose veterans this monument represents.   

At the end the parent in me won out and I was left worried about the future our children embody.  Parents, we must wake up and take responsibility for what we are teaching and perhaps, not teaching our children.  While we cannot always control what our children do when they are not with us we must instill in them the sense of right and wrong that should prevent this from occurring.   

While I realize that simple graffiti may not warrant the emotional response it gave me, it is often the simple things that can make the most difference.  

Sincerely,

MJ Lob

Patch is happy to report that the graffiti has since been removed and further beautification is scheduled for the park. Charles Barrett, Smithtown Director of Parks, Buidlings and Grounds, in a phone conversation, said they were able to grind out the cement area where the graffiti occurred. In addition to the new brick pavers and clean up, Barrett says new plantings will be installed next week.

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Nancy Bachthaler May 20, 2013 at 11:05 am
Apparently you are not the only one this is happening to. From what I understand if these signs areRead More on a main drag somehow they are disappearing in the middle of the night. Hmmm, now I wonder who or what organization could be doing this illegal act? I'm not going to make an educated guess who could be involverd in this deed but I think if Kings Parkers do some research they are smart enough to figure out who does not want the real facts of the "Uplands Project" to come to light. Displaying these signs is a way of making the public aware of the atrocity of this project. Questions will then be asked. Making a night run to remove them is, at the least, a cowardly act that should be publicized every time it occurs!
Jennifer Sloat (Editor) May 16, 2013 at 10:59 am
Thanks for reaching out to us. We are aware of the problem and should have it fixed very soon. SorryRead More for any inconvenience.
Madeline Pearl May 16, 2013 at 09:05 am
I had the same problem this morning. My inbox had around 50 e-mails from the patch. I deleted all ofRead More them and unsubscribed for new e-mails.
David masterson May 18, 2013 at 06:04 pm
Many of the babies won't survive. They get hunted down by raccoons and other predators. GoodRead More riddance
barbara s May 15, 2013 at 09:04 pm
Thanks Mike.... My daughter brought it to Sweetbriar today. she and the children were gettingRead More attached.....and we found out it is a baby gosling. But...still haven't located mom and sibs...I hope they can find a family for him...cute little fella! B
michael melnik May 15, 2013 at 08:52 pm
if you don't hear from anyone else you could try leaving it with the male and female here. I am offRead More st johnsland. comment if you are interested
KKM May 14, 2013 at 10:13 am
There's a 'Lost Dog' sign and a picture of a German Shepard in the window of Edelweis Deli.
Laura DeVito-adams May 13, 2013 at 05:05 pm
I just saw this dog running down sunken meadow rd. on Monday afternoon around 4:45. We tried callingRead More it but it ran into the st. johnland nursing home and wouldn't come to me when I tried calling it over. It looks like a shepherd mix and seems a little frightened. I called smithtown animal shelter but no one answered.
Jennifer May 13, 2013 at 04:38 pm
A dog matching this description was just on my street, Lyn Oak Lane, on Monday afternoon. I calledRead More Smithtown Animal Shelter but they wouldn't come. I tried to get the dog but he would not come and growled. The dog does not have a collar on.